The Hardest Lesson You’ll Have to Learn in 2019, According To Your Sign

The year is just past the halfway mark, and some of you have already had quite a lot to deal with.

But will this be the hardest lesson for you, or is there something right around the corner that you need to prepare yourself for?

Rather than tempt fate and risk the unknown, you can take a quick glimpse into what the rest of 2019 may hold for you.

Read below to see what the hardest lesson for your zodiac sign will be this year:

Aries (Mar 21-Apr 19)

Aries are known for being ambitious and hardworking. However, the more you focus on chasing your goals, the more you’re likely to forget about your important relationships. You need to learn to find the balance between work and your social life.

Aries is proud, competitive, and dynamic, and their desire to win at all costs can sometimes negatively affect their romantic relationships. When Aries disagrees with their partner or has a conflict within a relationship, instead of pushing to win no matter what, in 2019, Aries should learn how to say “I’m sorry.” Being able to apologize and resolve conflict in a productive way is a love lesson Aries needs to learn!

Taurus (Apr 20-May 20)

Taurus, you have to take it slow when facing an argument. Though you’re great at it, you need to learn that not all arguments should be won. Letting go of some is worth in the end. Choose your battles wisely.

Taurus is strong, dependable, and reliable, and loves to know that they can always be counted on to do the right thing. Taurus is super organized and has extremely high standards, which can be tough to constantly meet in romantic relationships. Taurus’ love lesson for 2019 is to let go of the concept of being perfect. By doing so, Taurus will feel less pressure, be able to relax, and open themselves up to new possibilities!

Gemini (May 21-Jun 20)

Geminis are great at holding on to relationships. But not all relationships are worth your time. Learn to let go of those that aren’t helping you grow. Just believe that you still can find ones that will help build you up.

Gemini is versatile, curious, and expressive, and isn’t afraid to share their feelings with their partner… and their entire social media following. Gemini can also be quick to change their mind and this can be confusing to romantic partners. Gemini’s love lesson for 2019 is to be consistent. While growth and change are healthy parts of life, Gemini’s relationships will be much more stable and rewarding if Gemini can be consistently available, can be counted on, and be grounded.

Cancer (Jun 21-Jul 22)

Cancers are known to be a natural nurturer. But this doesn’t mean that you need to pamper others without pampering yourself too. Getting out of your comfort zone is the best way to grow and live a fulfilled life.

Cancer is emotional, protective, and loyal, but can hide their true feelings and emotions behind their protective shell. Once Cancer is sure their partner reciprocates their feelings and can be trusted, they’ll share everything! But until then, Cancer is cautious. In 2019, Cancer’s love lesson is to be brave. In both life and love, sometimes you have to go out on a limb and if Cancer learns to be bold and brave and sometimes be the first one to say “I love you,” they’ll be much stronger for it.

Leo (Jul 23-Aug23)

Leos tend to seek validation from others. While there’s nothing wrong with asking for other people’s opinions, you should need to know that your self esteem or self worth is not dependent on others.

Leo is confident, dramatic, and fiery, and loves to be the center of attention. Because of Leo’s outgoing nature, Leo has no shortage of potential romantic partners. But this year, Leo should learn that it’s OK to be alone. Leo loves an audience, but learning how to be independent and strong on your own is a valuable skill! If Leo knows they’ll be just fine without a partner or a date, they won’t settle for a relationship that’s just so-so.

Virgo (Aug 24-Sept 23)

As a Virgo, you tend to have high expectations that aren’t realistic at times. Having high standards is good, but make sure that they’re flexible so that when things change, you’ll never find yourself getting overwhelmed and disappointed.

Virgo is practical, analytical, and very loyal, which make them great long-term romantic partners. They’re also gentle and kind, and would never betray or hurt anyone they care about. While all Virgo’s practicality serves them well, it can also hold them back from simply having a good time. That’s why Virgo should try to learn to have fun in a relationships. Love doesn’t need to always be so serious and intense — it can also be playful and silly.

Libra (Sept 24-Oct 23)

Libras are kind souls who are thoughtful and selfless. But when done overboard, you’ll hurt yourself in the process. At times, try putting your own needs first because you can’t help others when your needs aren’t met.

Libra is fair-minded, all about justice, and diplomatic and function very well within partnerships. They really enjoy working alongside someone else, and thrive being in romantic relationships. The downside of this is that Libra can be a little co-dependent or clingy, since they really like being a part of a team. In 2019, Libra should learn how to be independent, and how to let their partner do their own thing sometimes, have some space, and actually enjoy spending time on their own, too.

Scorpio (Oct 24-Nov 22)

Scorpio, you tend to hold grudges against anyone who has wronged you. Learn to let go of those grudges even when the wrongdoer fails to ask for an apology. Harboring grudges for so long can be destructive.

Scorpio is passionate, resourceful, and loves to be in control. This can be a great thing, since Scorpio has a very strong sense of right and wrong, however it can also lead to an imbalance within Scorpio’s personal relationships. Scorpio can be controlling and can be very jealous of their partner’s other interests and friends, but will hide their feelings from everyone. So Scorpio’s love lesson for 2019 is to be communicative and open with their partner. Instead of secretly seething, explaining and sharing their feelings will allow for their relationships to grow.

Sagittarius (Nov 23-Dec 21)

Being an adventurer, Sagittarius is always on the go. But don’t use this strength to run away from any situations or commitments you’ve agreed to. Settle your obligations first before embarking on that new journey.

Sagittarius is intellectually driven, curious, and loves to travel. Sagittarius is extroverted, optimistic, and relishes any opportunity to change. This can make is tricky for Sagittarius to form lasting bonds with someone unless they can completely let Sagittarius do their thing and maintain their independence. In 2019, Sagittarius’ love lesson is to let their partner in. Let them in on the adventure, in on the joke, and into their hearts and minds. By letting someone in, they can continue to change and grow, without leaving their partner behind.

Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan 20)

Capricorn, you find it hard to change something in your life even if it means moving forward. Learn to take the plunge because you can only be happy when you get yourself out of that rut.

Capricorn is serious, tenacious, and super disciplined, and once they achieve a goal, they immediately set another one. They are cautious and want to know all the information before jumping into a situation, so they can be very slow to trust and start a real committed relationship with someone. But once they do, they really mean it. This year, Capricorn should learn to be spontaneous with their romantic partner. Sometimes Capricorn’s stability and consistency can be a little boring, so spicing up their relationship with a little spontaneity can be a great thing.

Aquarius (Jan 21-Feb 18)

Being the mad scientist in the horoscope, Aquarius is guarded and detached at times. You need to learn to establish an emotional connection with others and express the love you have for them. It’s possible to be smart while being loving.

Aquarius is progressive, forward-thinking, and a friend to all. In fact, they usually prefer to have a great friendships before things become romantic. Aquarius loves to be entertained and challenged, and can find the steadiness and consistency of a relationship stifling sometimes. This year, Aquarius’ love lesson is to be patient. They’re quick, adventurous, and love change, so focusing on being patient with their partner, their relationship, and themselves will be a great skill to hone.

Pisces (Feb 19-Mar 20)

Pisces, one of your weaknesses is believing that others are out to get you. In reality, this isn’t so. Ease up a bit because this is just your exaggerated opinion of yourself.

Pisces is selfless, intuitive, and emotional, and will do things for others without expecting anything in return. Their giving nature makes them excellent friends and generous lovers, but can also put Pisces at risk of being taken advantage of. Pisces should learn the love lesson of being self-protective, and making sure their love is earned before they just freely give it away.

In all aspects of our lives, there’s always room for growth, room for change, and room for improvement. When it comes to living your best love life in 2019, taking a bit of a hint from your zodiac sign can direct you which way to go.